Monday, March 14, 2011

Bowlin' off some steam

After spending all of our time working on the house for the last couple of weeks I really needed to get out and bowl off some steam! I think I just needed to have some fun to feel refreshed and ready to keep remodeling and packing and cleaning and blah blah blah.Anyways, it worked wonders. We all had a great time. Jake got to help both of the kids learn some new skills and I worked the camera while chasing Sawyer when he wasn't physically holding the ball and throwing it down the lane.
He's such a cute little rascal!
Jane looks like a woman. I just noticed that and I am so sad.
Sawyers cute bowling shoes. I can't believe that they make bowling shoes in his size!! I thought for sure that he would be wearing his tennis shoes.

We ARE alive!!

We are alive! I swear it. We moved into our house about a month ago but before that we spent three weeks doing this:

and this:

and this:
and this:
AND this:
AND THIS:
Plus, we've done other things that I haven't been so good at documenting with my camera. What you didn't see in the sunken living room (with a fireplace) is the big, ugly, plywood built-in couch that we ripped out before we laid down the floors. That thing was a beast.

In fact, I didn't even want to LOOK at the house when I saw that picture on realtor.com.

BUT, now I am glad that we did. :)

So anyways, I'm sure you will see many more updates as we finish up the kitchen (we need to paint or stain the new cabinets and lay down tile or stain the concrete floor), finish off the sunken living room (we need to add a stair and banister so our children don't fall into the pit), paint the rest of the house that didn't get painted before we moved in, decorate and start in on new projects as time and money allow.

Life gets crazy when you own a home but I wouldn't trade it for anything. That backyard is golden and not having to yell at my kids for running in the house has made me a much calmer, happier mama.

Monday, February 14, 2011

Once upon a Valentine's Day...


Valentine's Day has been very good to my family for many many years now. Jake and I met on Valentine's day 2004. The story is that neither of us wanted to go to a church dance for singles on Valentine's day but we BOTH had friends that really wanted to go. Our friends drug us along and, luckily, we didn't leave empty handed.

Jake was standing in the foyer with his buddy when I walked in. I noticed him right away. He had (still does) the brightest blue eyes I'd ever seen. I smiled at him but walked by. As the night progressed I kept my eye on him as he danced with EVERY GIRL in the room except for me. He was so handsome. I couldn't stop staring, for real...

Anyways, to his credit, I was there with another boy. He didn't dance with me the whole night either so I sat on the opposite side of the couch watching Jake dance with all the girls in the room. It was an interesting night.

So, he finally asked me to dance and it was magic. I'm not kidding. I know that is a tremendously cliche thing to say! But, I'm serious. We danced through three songs straight. When it was time to leave I give him my number on a flier from Outback Steakhouse that said "Let your love bloom."

I think he got the message.



Two Valentine's Day's later we had been married for about 14 months and were pregnant with our first little bambina. We found out on February 14th that this sweet little dumpling would be a GIRL!! My sweet baby Jane. I love this girl so much. I was so happy that we were able to put a gender to this baby on Valentine's day 2006.



Two years after THAT we found out that we were pregnant with Sawyer! This little ball of energy has been such a huge blessing in our lives. He makes us smile and laugh every day. He loves everyone so much and we love him so much. Valentine's day 2008 was a happy day and it solidified our pattern of Valentine's Day blessings.

I can't believe that I have been blessed with such an amazing, unique and special family.

So, that brings us to Valentine's day 2011. We didn't find out the gender of a baby today, we didn't find out that we are pregnant today BUT we are announcing our latest pregnancy TODAY!!

WE ARE PREGNANT AND WE ARE SO HAPPY ABOUT IT!!

I'm trying to talk Jake into naming this baby "Valentine" but I don't think he's buying it. Wouldn't it be an amazing tribute to our family and the family story that we have been so lucky to write together?? I think so too.

Anyways, HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY! I hope that this day is as special for you as it is for me.

Love,
Starleigh

Friday, January 28, 2011

It's OFFICIAL!!!


It's Official, folks! We bought a house!

I didn't say anything on facebook or the blog or ANYWHERE basically because I was afraid I would jinx it. But, as of 4:00pm this afternoon there was nothing left to jinx. We closed, the money came through and we got the keys to our very first home!

It's a bit of a diamond in the rough. It is perfect structurally and it is very clean but it needs a lot of sweat equity updating. You'll see pictures on the blog as we tackle each project. I really want this house to be a reflection of our family and our style.

So, here are the details:
1400 sq/ft but with a finished garage it is actually 1900 sq/ft
3br/2ba
.33 acres
pool in the back yard
fireplace
sunken living room

I'm sure there are other things that I can list but I can't think of them at this point!! If you have questions, ASK!! I'll post more pictures as we move in and get around to making improvements and updates.

Little Ballerina



Sweetie Pea Jane has started Ballet lessons! She is so cute and She loves it so much. I can't believe how big my little girl is.
The kids had free dance but the teacher asked them to hold a bubble in their mouths so they would be quiet.
Jane is figuring first position out. She's a natural!!

Grandma Momo

Over Christmas break, the kids and I took a short trip up to Alabama to visit some family members that we haven't seen in awhile. This is Sawyer with his Uncle Brett and Great-Great-Grandma Momo (although he calls her "Mimo").




Jane and Grandma Momo. Can you believe that Jane and Sawyer have a Great-Great-Grandma?!

This is Jane playing the lovely piano in my Great Grandmother's lovely home. Just so you know, I played on that piano when I was just a little tyke too.

Wednesday, January 26, 2011

Big updates to come...

The new background is how I've been feeling lately... Light and airy...

We've got some big things in the works and I've got a lot of updating to do.

I just need to unload a bunch of pictures from my camera and then I'll get to it!

Check back tomorrow!!

Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Finally did the kids Christmas pictures!!




So I finally got these things done! It took me forever to find a morning where it wasn't too cold and the traffic too bad. The place I wanted to go wasn't available so we had to improvise. I think they turned out pretty well considering all the tears over having to stand still I had to mop up! I can't wait until Sawyer is old enough to not fight me about taking pictures all the time!!

Anyways, Merry Christmas!

Monday, December 13, 2010

Cruisin'

We went on a cruise to the Bahamas and it was so much fun! Seriously, we had a blast! The water was beautiful blue (see above) but it was a little chilly.

Anyways,


the above are just a smattering of pictures that were taken. We had a really great time and I would probably consider going on a cruise again. Having free babysitting on the ship was a huge help! The kids were able to play and have fun and we were able to go to shows.

I'm one happy woman...

Friday, November 19, 2010

This is what I know

In 1492 Columbus sailed the ocean blue; but it wasn’t until 1621 that the Pilgrims set foot on America’s shores. The European settlers that we lovingly know as the “pilgrims” set sail on the Mayflower in September of 1620. After sixty-six days at sea the Mayflower landed, so to speak, at Cape Cod. They were significantly north of their Hudson River destination.

Winters (and spring, if I dare say) can be brutally cold in the northeast. Because of harsh conditions most of the Mayflower’s colonists stayed on board the ship where they were exposed to scurvy, outbreaks of contageous disease and just plain cold weather. By the time spring finally arrived only half of the ships 102 passengers and crew were alive to settle the land.

When the pilgrims finally left the ship they received a visit from an Abenaki Indian that spoke fluent english. What a surprise! Can you imagine the joy they felt? Can you imagine their relief? This man introduced the pilgrims to an Indian from the Pawtuxet tribe named Squanto, who also spoke fluent english.

Now Squanto has a good story. If you’ve ever wanted one; he’s got it. Squanto was kidnapped by an English sea captain, sold into slavery and sent to London, where he lived until he was able to return home with an exploritory expidition crew. Can you imagine the fear he felt when going to meet these English sea men?

Back to the story…

So after the long journey, and even longer winter, the Pilgrims finally had found some luck. Squanto taught the Pilgrims how to live off the land. They learned how to farm, extract sap, fish and avoid poisonous plants. In November, after the corn had been harvested and some deer (that is what the historians* say was eaten…) were killed the Pilgrims, Squanto and some friends from the Wampanoag Tribe all sat down to a feast.

The purpose of the feast was to count their blessings, to truly name them one by one. Oh, how I wish I could be a fly on the tree at that Thanksgiving dinner. It was a time to reflect on the hardship and struggle that had led each one of them to that table on that day with those people. And, as I am sure you do as well, I imagine that the Spirit of the Lord was with them while they gave thanks for that day, that table and those people.

The same is true for us.

How often do we overlook the blessings that we have because of the trials that we endure? How many blessings do we have as a nation because we went through some dark days and nights? I can think of a few:

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1. After the Revolutionary War, America emerged as a nation and we now have a constitution that stands in tact. We have a country where anyone can work hard and succeed regardless of race, class, religion or wealth.

2. Speaking of race. Our country endured the dark days of segregation and the Civil Right’s movement and we now have an amazing culture that values diversity and accepts people as they are.

3. The Women’s Suffrage movement sparked the greatest increase in rights for a minority group in American history possibly. But the women who stood up for Women’s Rights endured hellish ordeals.

How many blessings do you have because of the trials you have been through? Anyone who knows me knows that I’ve seen a few things. And for a really long time I wondered why. Why did I have to endure that. I couldn’t see the reason behind it. In the last few weeks though, I’ve really seen the Lord’s hand in those parts of my life. If you’ll allow me to be cliché I must say that hind sight really is 20/20.

Today, as we draw closer to Thanksgiving Day, I stand before you and say I am so grateful for my trials. I am so grateful for every bad day, every bad night, every tear filled prayer and for every prayer that I thought was unanswered. I am grateful for my trials because it led me to this day. It led me to the people that I get to sit with at Thanksgiving dinner and share my gratitude with. That day, that table, those people.

My people.

May we all remember the blessings we’ve been given as we start this holiday season. We have all been richly blessed, even if we don’t know it yet.

This is what I know.

*My research on Pilgrims was done at www.history.com